“拿某人出气”常见的英文表达有 “take it out on someone” 或 “vent one's anger/frustration on someone”。
“take it out on someone”：这是最常用、最直接的表达，意思是将情绪（尤其是负面情绪）发泄在某人身上，也就是拿对方出气。例如：Don't take your frustration out on me just because things didn't go your way.（别因为事情没如你所愿，就拿我出气 。）
“vent one's anger/frustration on someone”： “vent”有“发泄（情绪）”的意思，这个短语强调把愤怒或挫败感等负面情绪向某人宣泄。例如：He often vents his anger on his family after a hard day at work.（在工作辛苦一天后，他经常拿家人出气。 ）