该短语是“动词+副词+介词”的结构,必须带宾语(宾语通常是“人”,偶尔也可指“事物/情况”,但更常见的是描述人际关系)。
宾语如果是“人”,需用宾格形式(如 him, her, them 等)或名词;
宾语如果是“事物”,通常指“适应/处理某事顺利”(较少见)。
一般现在时(描述常态):I get on well with my classmates.(我和同学相处得好。)
一般过去时(描述过去的状态):We got on well with each other when we were kids.(我们小时候相处得很好。)
现在进行时(描述当前的相处状态):How are you getting on well with your new roommate?(你和新室友相处得怎么样?)
现在完成时(强调过去到现在的持续状态):They have got on well with their boss since they joined the company.(自加入公司以来,他们和老板一直相处得很好。)
否定句:在助动词(do/does/did/have 等)后加 not,如:
She doesn’t get on well with her sister.(她和姐姐相处得不好。)
We didn’t get on well with our old neighbors.(我们和老邻居之前相处得不好。)
疑问句:将助动词提前,如:
Do you get on well with your colleagues?(你和同事相处得好吗?)
How did you get on well with the new student?(你是怎么和新学生相处好的?)
如果去掉 well,短语变为 get on with sb.,意思是“与……相处”(不强调“好”,只是描述“相处”的动作或状态)。例如:
I need to get on with my brother more.(我得多和弟弟相处。)
How are you getting on with your new teacher?(你和新老师相处得怎么样?)
1、 与人相处:
My mom gets on well with everyone in the neighborhood.(我妈妈和邻居们都相处得很好。)
Do you get on well with your in-laws?(你和岳父母/公婆相处得好吗?)
They got on well with the foreign guests during the party.(派对上他们和外宾相处得很愉快。)
2、 与事物“适配”(较少见):
I get on well with this new computer—it’s very user-friendly.(我很适应这台新电脑——它很好用。)
She gets on well with stress by practicing yoga.(她通过练瑜伽很好地应对压力。)
例如:He gets along well with his teammates.(他和队友相处得很好。)
不可省略“with”:必须带介词 with 才能接宾语,如不能说“I get on well my friend”(错误),正确是“I get on well with my friend”。
宾语为人时更常用:虽然可接事物,但90%以上的语境是描述“人与人的关系”。
总结:get on well with 是描述人际关系“融洽”的核心短语,记住“主语+get on well with+sb.”的结构,结合时态变化就能灵活使用啦!